Let go of fears and doubts as you reconnect and harmonize with your body
Reignite passion and love the way you deserve and desire
Improve your relationship and communication to overcome shame and remove blocks
The Feminine Awakening Retreat is a private 1:1, practitioner-led transformation program for women to reconnect with feminine energy, embrace sensuality, heal past traumas and resolve intimacy or relationship issues in a safe, supportive environment.
This trusted and holistic approach uses my signature 4-step awakening program— a modern somatic method influenced by Indian Tantra and ancient Egyptian Isis practices.
I work in the liminal zone between science, psychology, and spirituality — a space where identity and trust are fluid. My role is to bring clarity, structure, and emotional safety for women who want certainty in a private, high-standards setting.
The retreat is 50% practice and 50% education. It is not mass-market or casual entertainment but a high-end, once-in-a-lifetime transformative experience focused on personalisation, healing, and deep spiritual connection. It is meticulously crafted to your unique situation, needs, body responses, and energy flow.
Locations in Thailand — Weekend tantra retreats for women available on demand in Koh Phangan, Koh Samui, Phuket, Chiang Mai and Bangkok. Fly-to-You available on request.
Throughout the process, the priority is you — held in a discreet, respectful, non-judgemental atmosphere. Sessions are calm, hygienic, and consent-led, with clear communication at every step.
Hi, I'm Alex Noirs, an Internationally recognised Somatic Sexologist.
Welcome to my transformative world of sensual self-discovery. For half my life, I’ve immersed myself in women’s sexual physiology—resolving intimacy blocks and mastering the fundamentals of sensual fulfilment—to help women feel safe, clear, and fully alive in their bodies again.
Facts you usually want to know about me:
Why do I do this?
I now work with women worldwide, helping thousands rediscover themselves, build confidence, and awaken authentic pleasure through somatic practice.
They are the finest among us – Women unafraid to embrace change, venture boldly, and learn from their mistakes, ever committed to progress. These free spirits and nomadic souls possess curious and open minds, ever hungry for new knowledge, experiences, and emotions. They form a formidable force of critical thinkers who, deep down, reject and challenge the absurd societal stereotypes about sexuality and the centuries-old patriarchal legacies of judgmental cultural and male societal pressures.
— Alex Noirs
My approach revolves around the distinctive "4-Steps Sexual Awakening " a methodology of somatic therapy exclusively crafted to enrich women's sensual wellness and sexual self-improvement in a professional, non-risky, non-judgmental, and hygienic environment.
Over time, I've uncovered intriguing side effects of my practice that have shifted my mindset and approach. Addressing issues surrounding sexuality has a transformative impact on individuals' lives, leading to increased happiness and improved personal life and even financial results.
Why? Artificial patriarchal sexual taboos, cultural norms, religious doctrines, and societal pressures often suppress our sensuality, limiting our creativity and self-expression in daily life.
For centuries, muscular society has stigmatised women's sexuality and body image, imposing judgment on any deviation from its narrow standards of sexual norms. However, sexuality knows no shame or normality—it's a boundless blend of emotions and fantasies. When we stifle creativity in one aspect of our lives, it affects other areas, hindering our success and stifling our creativity.
Therefore, the remarkable side effect of uncovering and embracing your authentic sexual identity is heightened success in various aspects of life—career, relationships, and beyond.
The Feminine Awakening Retreats is an immersive experience designed to help women reconnect with their feminine energy, embrace their sensuality, and resolve intimacy and relationship issues in a safe and supportive environment.
Most people have lifetime-long unresolved emotional issues and traumas related to sexuality. The 4-step sexual awakening program can help release these traumas, dissolve emotional blocks, and enhance sensitivity and pleasure in your body, bringing more joy into your life and relationships.
Somatic therapy can promote deep relaxation, reducing stress and anxiety.
1It can enhance sexual well-being, and fertility, increase libido, and improve orgasms.
2Heighten sensual pleasure, orgasms and self-awareness.
3Yoni session may help alleviate menstrual cramps, vaginal and pelvic pain.
4It fosters a deeper connection with your body and can improve intimacy with a partner.
5It helps you become more attuned to your body's sensations and needs.
6It helps boost self-esteem and body confidence.
7Therapy can aid in releasing emotional trauma and promoting emotional well-being.
8It contributes to overall well-being by addressing physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects.
9I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you. Last session I meant more to me than I realized. It wasn’t just about the physical experiance—it changed how I view intimacy and what it can mean. I feel like I learned a lot about myself through that experience, and I appreciate how open and respectful you were. I felt seen in a way that awakened something deep within me. It wasn't just physical it was the way you made me feel like a woman, fully present in my skin. The world outside disappeared, and in those moments, it was just me, lost in the rhythm of something both wild and tender.
Sindy, 48, MalaysiaThank you so much for a wonderful and very educational experience! I learnt so much and had a beautiful experience - I am glad I chose to do this as I have got so many tips on how I can improve my sexual experience. I have never felt this relaxed and comfortable- thank you for creating the safe space. Really appreciate it.
Naomi, 24, USI was a bit nervous at first as I had never done anything like this before. But Alex immediately gives you a feeling of trust and freedom to feel everything you feel and to simply be your sensual self. I felt safe and he took a lot of time and was very patient and gentle. I can therefore only highly recommend Alex's service!
Lucy, 33, SwitzerlandAlex was knowledgeable, and skilled and made me feel safe and comfortable enough that I was able to have a fully embodied experience. I’ve had two sessions and it feels like doors are opened I didn’t even know could open for me. All women deserve to receive pleasure like this!
Natalia, 35, IndonesiaImagine a relaxed indulgent cocoon of bliss where you get to surrender to the delights of intelligent company and sensual touch. Alex treats you with utmost respect, creating a safe, non-judgemental space to receive pleasure. I wanted to reconnect with my feminine sexual energy. I left feeling beautiful, sexy and desirable. Ladies, this is a life affirming experience - do it! Thanks again Alex!
Katrin, New ZealandThanks for today it was a wonderful learning curve into better opening up to myself and others. I now have some new ideas I can bring back to my beloved husband.
Thank you for your attention and presence as well as holding a safe space.
Hello Alex, I just wanted to express my heartfelt gratitude for the amazing session you provided today. Loved your thoughtful approach to create warm and supportive environment throughout the session. Surrendering to the touches was actually very liberating. I'm not too sure how to express in words, but I'm glad to have found you, and allowed to experience it. You helped to discover the somehow lost feminine in me, made me feel more of a confident woman, healed a little more, came closer to my core self, and feel more connected with my partner than ever.
Anna, SingaporeFor traditional women like myself, rekindling the sexual connection with their partner is invaluable. Thank you for your work ethic, your patience, kindness, respectfulness, and professionalism.
Shakira, USI'm truly grateful for this opportunity to learn more about the sensual collaboration between my body and mind from you. It was informative, intense, kind, and professional. Thank you so much!
Nina, SlovakiaIt was amusing – at 40, it was the most spontaneous and adventurous decision in years. But the experience was unbelievable; I got the most potent sensitive waives of my last ten years. Three hours of pure bliss is entirely worth it!
Hanna, SingaporeIt was a different level: I learned about and experienced true sexual satisfaction and happiness. Far from the chaos that usually accompanies sexual contact, I felt things in my body that fell far brighter than any previous sexual interaction.
Ling, TaiwanA friend told me about erotic yoni massage when I confessed I found sex boring. I could never feel much down there, and nothing I tried seemed to work, like sex toys. I was initially nervous, but my body became more responsive during the massage. The touch was compassionate and exploratory, and I felt these incredible sensations in my body.
Aimee, USAI got out of the relationship some time ago, but every time I had sex, I felt like I was holding back or tightening up. During the yoni massage, we explored this issue, physically, emotionally and sexually. It helped me view sex and being touched more positively. I'm still getting there, but the more sessions I attend, the better I feel.
Lisa, USASometimes everything coincides, the mood, the place, the atmosphere, the person, the attunement, the intimacy, the surrender, the cadence, the fulfilment, the intoxication. This journey has been worth gold to me. I now feel like a free woman, whose sexual energy is allowed to flow unhindered. In a word: Heavenly!
Zara, MalaysiaI get something different out of every session. Today, I feel proud that I am not afraid to take the next step in my personal development path, becoming the more confident and sexual woman I want to be. Yoni massage is a gift to yourself.
Nat, ThailandWow, It was amazing! I never knew so much about my level of sensitivity. The session was respectful, relaxed and polite for my personality and issues: no pressure or stress, just professional bodywork.
Sunarti, IndonesiaAn average retreat day can last 7 to 12 hours depending on body and mind reaction.
It contains 2-3 theory parts and 2-3 bodywork sessions
Before the session begins, we'll sit and discuss setting intentions and boundaries and clarify all questions.
You will get training on female sexuality, intimacy and relationships, we openly discuss all sensitive and important topics.
You'll be gently blindfolded, lying face down on a plush bed, enveloped in soft melodies and easy chatter, setting the mood for pure relaxation and anticipation.
As you shed your inhibitions, I begin a seductive coconut oil massage. Starting from your legs, I caress my way up to your thighs, exploring your pelvic region, tracing the contours of your back, and tenderly caressing your hands, belly, and breasts igniting your senses and preparing your body for the journey ahead.
Maintaining utmost respect for your boundaries ensures your comfort, relaxation, and safety throughout our time together. You're encouraged to communicate your desires and preferences freely at any moment.
Let's transition to the heart of our sensual journey. With gentle strokes, kneading, and circular motions, I'll explore both the external and internal realms of your Yoni (vaginal area). This pivotal phase is dedicated entirely to your pleasure and the profound depths of sensuality.
While the session isn't focused solely on achieving orgasm, it's about embracing sensual exploration. Women's bodies offer a unique spectrum of 25 types of orgasmic sensations, ranging from skin and nipple to A-spot and squirting orgasms.
A spiritual awakening as sensual energy ignites during the session builds a profound connection between body, mind, and spirit as you delve into the depths of your sensual being.
As our session draws to a close, it's normal to experience emotional release, even shedding tears.
You'll have time to rest and integrate the experience, savouring the sensations and newfound awareness.
I am available to come to your city on demand, at your preferred location and time.
Don't be shy to ask awkward questions, and introduce your situation, and preferences.
This step helps us understand how to meet your expectations and ensures a personalized experience.
Once we've clarified all the details during the consultation, you can proceed to book your retreat.
Signature Sexual Awakening Retreat — a 4-Step Programme available in Koh Phangan, Samui, Bangkok, across Thailand, and worldwide.
2-Day Escape to Tantra Island — 80,000 THB / 2,500 USD.
3-Day Escape to Tantra Island — 100,000 THB / 3,000 USD.
4-Day Escape to Tantra Island — 120,000 THB / 3,500 USD.
“Fly to you” is available on request; travel expenses must be covered.
The Signature 4-Step Feminine Sexual Awakening Program is designed as a deeply personal journey of transformation. A deep reset for your erotic life: a step-by-step program that dismantles limiting behaviour loops, dissolves blocks, and repairs intimacy, using somatic practices, theory training, and personalised, targeted coaching.
A guided process to release trauma, fear, and emotional blockages stored in the mind. It supports deep relaxation, healing of past wounds, and a renewed sense of confidence and fulfilment.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THIS STEP?We create a safe, confidential space where you can release fears or shame rooted in childhood or past experiences. Through guided practices, you reconnect with your true self and open the mind to sensuality and pleasure.
*Everyone’s journey is unique. If deeper blockages are present, more than one session may be beneficial.
WHY IS MIND AWAKENING SO IMPORTANT?This first step sets the foundation for the entire journey.
I. Diagnostic – We map your situation, patterns, and the changes with the greatest impact.
II. De-armouring – The mind learns to respond with trust, presence, and openness to sensual energy and partner signals.
1. Baseline Assessment
2. Sensual Journalling
3. Sex Education & Myth-Busting
4. Sensual Intention & Visualisation
5. Physiological Reset
6. Somatic Priming & Anchoring
7. Cognitive Activation Drills
8. Self-Confidence Building
9. The Art of Asking
10. From Fantasy to Practice
11. Mirror Work
12. Sexual Energy Flow
A step dedicated to releasing physical tension and stress stored in the body. It builds relaxation, safety, and receptivity, allowing energy and sensation to move more freely.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THIS STEP?Through guided breathwork, body awareness, and gentle release techniques, we reduce chronic holding patterns. This reconnects you with physical sensations and teaches the body it is safe to feel pleasure and intimacy.
WHY IS BODY AWAKENING SO IMPORTANT?It bridges mental clarity and physical readiness:
1. Establishes safety and relaxation in the body.
2. Awakens sensitivity and presence.
3. Prepares for deeper intimacy and pleasure.
1. Mind–Body Reconnection
2. Sensual Breathing
3. Sensual Stretching
4. Vocalisation of Orgasm
5. Pelvic Mobility
6. Body Activation Exercises
7. Body De-Armouring
8. Full-Body Massage
9. Body Pleasure Mapping
10. Sensation Play
11. Hot & Cold Play
12. Sensual Touch: Receiving & Giving
13. Cuddling Therapy
A gentle process of releasing tension and restoring sensitivity in the vagina (yoni). It helps rebuild safety, connection, and deeper awareness of your feminine core.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THIS STEP?We start externally and progress slowly with breath, relaxation, and awareness-based practices. This may include gentle entrance softening and, if appropriate, light internal mapping. The focus is always safety, sensitivity, and comfort — never pressure.
WHY IS YONI AWAKENING SO IMPORTANT?The yoni often carries tension or memory. This step is vital because:
1. It restores natural responsiveness and receptivity.
2. It reduces pain, numbness, or discomfort.
3. It prepares the yoni for deeper intimacy and penetration, if desired.
1. Mind–Body–Yoni Reconnection
2. Yoni Activation Exercises
3. Yoni De-Armouring
4. Yoni Softening
5. Yoni Mapping: guiding to the C-spot, U-spot, G-spot, A-spot, P-spot, K-spot, O-spot & Cervix
6. Yoni Geometry
7. Squirting School
The integration of mind, body, and yoni into a whole sensual experience. This step focuses on intimacy, pleasure, and the free flow of sexual energy.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THIS STEP?We begin with relaxation rituals, continue with external pleasure mapping, and free-flow in safe, supported ways. The emphasis is on presence and enjoyment rather than performance.
WHY IS SEXUAL AWAKENING SO IMPORTANT?This final step completes the journey:
1. Integrates all previous stages into a whole experience.
2. Builds confidence in giving and receiving pleasure.
3. Creates lasting positive change in intimacy and self-expression.
1. Sensual Bathing
2. Five Rules of Pleasure
3. Sex Positions
4. Sex Toys
5. Switch
6. Role Play
7. Body Painting
8. Bondassage (blindfolding, bondage)
9. Pleasing the Partner
10. Aftercare & Integration
The 4-step program follows a proven sequence that gradually releases blocks, awakens sensitivity, and builds lasting transformation. Each step is science-based and designed for deep integration.
The program has 4 steps and can be completed over 2–4 days or adapted to 4 weeks of online coaching with guided practices between sessions. Each step builds on the last, helping your body and mind adjust, learn, and transform safely.
Each step is an essential part of the awakening process. Skipping or reordering breaks the flow and reduces effectiveness. The integrity of the sequence ensures safety, emotional depth, and full transformation.
Yes. While the 4-step framework is structured, every session is adapted to your personal needs, boundaries, and body responses. The journey is bespoke, intimate, and deeply individual.
All sessions are held in special facilities or online via secure, private video calls — ensuring full discretion, comfort, and accessibility from your own space.
Absolutely. Confidentiality is fundamental. Nothing is ever recorded or shared, and your identity and personal details remain fully protected at all times.
Yes. As sessions can be done on demand or online, women from any location can participate.
Due to the personal nature of this work, only 5 women are accepted each month. Early booking is recommended to guarantee availability.
Service is exclusively designed for a lady, ensuring safety, confidentiality, and comfort at every moment of your experience.

A private, practitioner-led 1:1 retreat that combines ~50% guided practice with ~50% education. It helps you reconnect with the body, build confidence, and learn healthy intimacy skills in a safe, consent-first, non-sexual setting. It is a boutique, high-standards programme—not casual entertainment or a street-parlour service.
It is by appointment only. Please send me your initial inquiry, I will send further details.
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